Dark Side

    We all have a dark side. Each & every one of us has done something that we aren’t proud of… & for many of us it’s become habit. We do little things for attention. We enjoy learning about other peoples’ business. We dig where we don’t belong. We make mistakes that we aren’t willing to admit… but that we are sometimes willing to repeat.

    The reason I’m writing this blog is because I’ve had relationships in my life where people seemed to have an addiction. People do stupid things for attention. They take stupid risks. They lie about things for no reason, they cause drama that would otherwise not have existed, they get upset over things that are not in the least bit important, & they flirt shamelessly with the opposite sex even though they are in a serious relationship. 

    So where do we draw the line? 

    It’s tough, but there comes a point when you need to realize that this person is never going to change. If you’ve confronted them about the situation & explained to them how much it’s negatively affecting your life without response, they are not willing to change. And the only way they will be is if they realize it themselves. – You cannot change anyone, you only have the ability to change yourself.

    So will you accept their dark side? It all depends on you. How much does this affect your life? How badly have these occurrences hurt you? How much are you willing to put up with or accept? – What about considering that this person is someone you can or cannot live without?

    Are you willing to go the distance?


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